Sex, Lies, and a Desi Take

Most South Asian parents believe their child is not sexually active. (“Our daughter is much smarter than other girls her age.”) Like it or not, the chances that your child has had a taste of the forbidden paan is a fairly safe conclusion (one can only hope that they, too, were safe).

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Rebellion rewired

Jaspreet is an 18-year-old high school senior in New York City. There is a side to Jaspreet her parents don’t know about. And if they did, they might not ever speak to her again.

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2 States

“Your parents should know how to behave.” There we are, at one of the most romantic locations in India, having our first marital discord. In an Indian love marriage, by the time everyone gets on board, one wonders if there is any love left.

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From parent to onlooker

“In an Indian culture there is more closeness, involvement and warmth.” South Asian Parent talks to Sheila Natesan about her son’s cross-cultural marriage to an American.

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Our child’s Indo-Pak relationship

The first we heard of a potentially serious relationship between our daughter, Indian by origin and broadly Hindu in religious inclination, and her friend, of Pakistani origin and Muslim by religion of birth, was through her email.

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Tying the ‘NOT’

Mita married Nick eleven years ago—an Indian girl living in England found a life partner in a sensible, charming British man. They crossed cultural boundaries at a time when it wasn’t commonplace.

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Out of Bounds

I was nervous to tell my dad I was dating Chris. I didn’t want to in the first place, but Chris was starting to get offended. I can’t remember how I brought it up on the phone, but I do remember how my dad responded.

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