Would the choices I made, in terms of how I wanted to live my life, distance me from my Big Fat Indian family?
So if you like a guy, and you want him to know it, you ignore him. Something about that seems counter-intuitive, doesn’t it?
Dating is hard. Dating in South Asian culture is even harder. As a single Indian girl in her mid 20’s, I’ve reached the inevitable stage where most of my friends are getting engaged, married, or are already in serious relationships.
Living together would let an altogether larger elephant into the room. It would count as an acknowledgment of the fact that yes, we have sex.
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